Two Stories Becoming One…

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For many years when Wayne put Julia to bed, he told her a bedtime story. Oh and btw, Wayne did tuck Julia into bed every night. This was his daddy responsibility. It gave me a few moments to relax before bed… Back to the story… It went something like this,

“Mama and Daddy got married and couldn’t have children, they prayed and prayed for God to bring us a child. God looked all over the whole world and found the perfect baby in Guatemala for our family and brought her to us. She made us so happy… ” Julia loved the story and asked us to tell her over and over when she was little.

Julia also celebrated two birthdays–the day she was born in Guatemala and the day we brought her home to the states. The latter we called her “Happy Day.” And growing up, she felt privileged to have two days not one… Wayne and I tried to make her experience full of joy and adventure. The whole concept of adoption is very spiritual… we are all adopted children, born into God’s kingdom of light, but that is another post…

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In Guatemala, another story had played out that brought Julia to us… Estella (above) was born in San Marcus, a Guatemalan state next to Mexico. There were 18 children born to her mother–only 10 lived. Four died at birth and four later. Estella was the seventh of ten. Her father was a poor farmer and died when she was eleven. 

At the time, her mother sent Estella to Guatemala City to live and work for a family. She has never returned home and has worked as a maid in various places since then. She conceived a son, and later met and married Julia’s father, Carlos. He is a twin with blonde hair and green eyes. It was understood that he had European roots… that his family came from Spain or Germany.

Together Carlos and Estella had another son and two girls, but their life was very hard. They lived with Carlos’ family, and they did not like Estella and treated her very badly, telling lies about her. When she became pregnant with Julia, Carlos’ mother told him that the baby was not his. Carlos believed this and threatened to strangle the baby and kill Estella if she had it. She feared for her life all the time. She said it was the hardest time of her life.

Carlos began to drink heavily and stayed drunk most of the time. He beat Estella and told her repeated to abort the baby. She fled for her life, saved the baby, and didn’t know what to do but give her up for adoption. She got in touch with a lawyer, and he contacted us. 

We knew nothing about this, but we had prayed fervently for the right child to come to us. Then someone called Shady Grove Church to ask if anyone wanted to adopt a baby. Another family from another church had used this same lawyer and was very pleased. We contacted the lawyer immediately, and then one day he called to say that a girl had been born to Estella. He said, “I have her birth certificate in front of me. What do you want to name her?” Well, we had prayed and already knew her name: Julia Elizabeth.

It took another six months before all the red tape of adoption was clear. We flew to Guatemala City and brought her home. 

Now hearing Estella’s story we understand more than ever that Julia’s life had been “snatched out of the mouth of a lion.” Those are the very words God put in my heart as we interceded for a breakthrough in those months we waited for Julia to become ours.

Both Julia and Estella’s lives were in jeopardy. And although it was hard, it was a very loving thing for Estella to do… to give Julia up for adoption. She could have aborted her out of fear… God had other plans for our Julia, and now she has returned to her homeland to thank her mother for her life, and bless their entire family. 

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Ten years ago, Estella heard the Gospel and repented of her sins. She became a true believer. She prayed to meet Julia one time in her life. And God answered that prayer.

Carlos is still living. He is an alcoholic and remains in a drunken stupor most of the time. Estella rarely sees him. She does not think that he knows that Julia was born. That is the sad part of the story. 

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It is so wonderful to see how God was at work, blending two stories and bringing people together. He is always bringing lives together to love and to reflect His glory.

This also illustrates how the devil means life’s circumstances for evil, but God turns them for good…

More stories and photos coming…

Today we are taking a tour of the city and going to an aquarium restaurant later. For all you Shady Grovers, we had supper last night with Pepe and Mayda. It was so wonderful to catch up with them!


23 thoughts on “Two Stories Becoming One…

  1. Keep all the pictures and comments coming…we love it!! I’m so glad you spent time with Pepe and Mayda – I’d love to see them. We’re still enjoying your trip,

  2. Praise God that He pulled my sister out of darkness and into His marvelous light!!! I love your family so much!

  3. Good morning!
    Just read your latest blog on your wordpress page. gotta say… I am crying yet again!
    How the Lords hand has been on Julia her whole life…. just amazing to see!

  4. Wow… this is such an amazing story of God, always in control, always working on our behalf, for our good and His restoring power. Man… that’s such amazing grace!

  5. Bonnie, you have to write this in book form – what a miracle story, and what Estella & you both have gone through. What a story of adoption, redemption, reconciliation… I’m sobbing just thinking of Estella & what she has gone through and how she heard the gospel & believed.

  6. I’m rejoicing in the love and grace of God as I experience Julia’s story with you guys…AWESOME, WONDERFUL, our God is SO GOOD!!

  7. That powerful prayer that Julia’s birth mother prayed to have a chance to see Julia again really got me. God is so faithful to hearing prayers. How awesome to read about this miracle. Keep writing more and give me pictures! They bring tears of joy to my eyes!

  8. Yes i agree with all the above comments. It is indeed a beautiful story to be continued. How precious for Julia to know the life she was given with you and Wayne. How beautiful Estella’s story, to give her child to be loved and nurtured by you. Julia was given a gift of love from you two that words cannot express. I sense the ministry of compassion that will link you all together for a long time.
    When students come to our school one of the things i say in intercession is while you are here, believe that all God is doing in your heart will be done in healing to your family. So many years of preparation for this incredible event in time. God’s hand was hovering over the whole situation and directing from different places for such a loving time as this. I am so glad to be able to hear this story and yes both you and Julia should write it when things have settled a bit. In Cyprus our team here is so happy for you, Julia and blessed to know your dear parents, Wayne and Bonnie.

  9. Wow. Julia’s story is so touching. It brings me to tears. Just knowing how God has been working all this time and has never stopped. Thank you for sharing these precious moments in Julia’s and you and Wayne’s life. I’m just grateful that I could be apart of it even through your blog. Love you guys!!!

  10. Bonnie – I don’t even know you beyond the stories but I am so blessed to have this glimpse of your life, Estelle’s life, Julie’s life. The story is all about redemption – God’s amazing, amazing grace. Blessings!

    Beth

  11. Amazing! So touching! Julia, you are special and precious. The love of Christ is unfathomable. I am deeply moved and happy for you all.

  12. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. It has blessed my heart so much to read it. I love you all dearly and Julia, your amazing and I can’t wait to see you again.

  13. I can’t read or see pictures without tearing up at God’s amazing goodness. We are all blessed that God brought Julia into your and our lives.

  14. I’ve been following your blog, just wanted to say that this is amazing and it really touched my heart. God is so faithful!!

  15. that was touching reading all of the blogs about Julia and her biological family. Tugged on my mommy heart strings as well as deepened that desire to adopt.

  16. Such a wonderful story….gave me goose bumps as I read it. Estella is such a pretty woman. Bless her for her love for Julia that she wanted her to have a good life. All the people in this cast are blessed beyond words.

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